first of...i loved the article. it was just so "real." thank you!
also, for the people that are unable to decide on their goals, i wanna mention the thought-process i went through that helped me. until recently, i strugged with that as well. "i don't know what i want" was the statement i often repeated. somewhere along the way i came up with a few things i wanted (perhaps some would call these values); for me these are
love and compassion
freedom and expression
inspiration and empowerment
and from these, i started to see a few things i want. of course, there are still some areas wherein i'm not sure of the "concrete" thing i want but i know i want "freedom and expression" and i'm not worried about the "concrete" goal since i know it'll appear.
am i making sense?
sameer