Women are finding you attractive if you find your self attractive (not to put into narcissistic view). You need to become go-getter, self-aware and kind. There are some aphrodisiacs that women like (of any age!) and that is striving for success (mental, monetary, physical) now this does not mean you have to get that MM, Ferrari or body like Arnold... you don't have to be champion in anything but you should strive to achieve more than you have (all the qualities from material to spiritual). This does not include artificiality because that is false, you must be true to your self and to others.
Also it is great to be cute! (^_^) But by being cute you will hang dry... you need also that masculinity, the certain jazz that will get her to chase you and not the vice versa..
