I'm so sorry you are feeling trapped! *hugs* I think the best thing to do is to stick with the job until you've saved enough money to go to school, or until you find a different job. It's only been 4 days though, you might get used to it after a while, hang in there! And as for women, it's not true you have to be financially stable before women will date you, a good heart and a kind disposition and above all confidence in yourself is all you really need! Good luck my friend