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Old 07-17-2010, 08:29 PM   #5 (permalink)
metamorph
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What do you do exactly as a job?

How come you did not save anything in the last 10 years esp if you live with your parents?

Changing jobs (even if it is not better paid) may be a good step if only for being in a different job, so there is something new and a new learning curve. This alone should get you further and improve your mood. A monotonous job that does not challenge will drain you in the long run.

Taking evenig classes is a good idea too. I know you feel tired, but the alternative is to keep doing what you have been doing and staying put. I know how hard it is, I often work 60+ hours per week. There are even some people here in UK that work 2 jobs (yes: 2x 8 hours per day. Not sure if it is legal.). Rather than worrying about money and women, I would think about what job you want to have in the long run and work towards getting it. With a goal in mind it is doable.
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