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Old 04-17-2007, 01:03 AM   #10 (permalink)
Jenny
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Originally Posted by Akashic_Librarian View Post
I know you might not understand...but by accepting defeat you are one step towards victory.
I believe you are on to something here. I don't believe one should wallow in defeat but the experience of utter defeat allows a strange sense of freedom. It's as if you now know the worst and can just move forward from that point on without all of the self-consciousness and fear that were tied to your growth before.
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