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Old 07-05-2010, 12:32 PM   #4 (permalink)
Mynder
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What were the things that kindled your fire in the past? When you were a child, a teen, a young adult, and then gradually as you aged?

In the flow of a lifetime, different things become gradually more and less important than others. What got your heart pumping and your anger flaring when you were in your teens might be something you smiled knowingly about just a few years later.

But, along the course of your life, I bet a particular set of values has remained stable. Things you decide you will and will not do. Things you want to see in the world, and things you don't want to see in the world.

I suppose there might be several opportunities to stand in and stand up for groups trying to change these things that you would like to see changed. Pick stuff that really still bothers you, or something that really satisfied you when you did or witnessed it, e.g. a particular act of kindness.

If there is one thing that I learned it is that the older we grow, the more valuable we become, because of valuable life experience, and often enough wisdom to decide what matters and what doesn't beyond the moment. So many things become so unimportant just a few short years later. There is so much wisdom and knowledge to share.

If you're bored, you can do what I do. Offer to listen, offer to suggest advice where asked, and to contribute your life experience to somebody's problem-at-hand. If you can get to that remote place where it doesn't matter to you whether somebody takes your advice or not, that all that counts is that it was offered and available, then this might be worthwhile looking into.

A helping hand can make a big difference in a person's life, and you are never too old to extend yours.
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