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Old 04-16-2007, 09:10 AM   #20 (permalink)
Sworn
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Hey Alpha 327

I agree with liara great advice and (im gonna sound pretty arrogant and sexist here) especially for a woman.

4) learn how to flirt -- a girl likes to be told that she is beautiful
If that's flirting, I can play guitar with my omelet Its true though.
Its all in the way you say a woman is beautiful. Most guys will interpret this like it's ok to suck up to a woman and tell her she's beatiful in a very needy and approval seeking way.
So it's all about subcommunication really
A lot of women will give you advice based and what they think SHOULD work morally but actually causes them to run away as fast as they can at the end of the day.
But yes of course women do like a confident man.
Yes being honest and authentic is very powerful.
Yes being yourself is very attractive. Yet it's a lot easier said than done when you're not a confident guy, introverted, fearful etc...

What will guys who have proplems with women and can't get laid by hotties have going
Here's a guy who has trouble getting laid and is authentic - like I used to be and still am for a great part: "Well you know I like to play a lot of videogames and surf the internet and like to chill" while he stares off into the distance.
If you want to date girls casually and have sex with them and they're in for the same thing, why not?


yada yada yada,....
None of what I say are my own ideas but other people have figured this out. I can backup all the above with real life experience though.

Fast Seduction 101: Art of Pick-up and Seduction (where this whole nightmare kind of took flight)
read dynamic sex life by gunwitch
double your dating david d wont hurt I guess
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Real Social Dynamics (tyler durden's articles are just brutal)

just off the top of my head
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