| | Choosing Friends
I am very aware of the friends I choose to hang out with. I consciously choose them. I do not tell them though, "I have deliberately chosen to be friends with you", I just notice myself choosing and hanging with certain types of people.
I always have a bestfriend, someone I spend most of my time and am very close too. That person changes over time and I find someone to go with each new stage of my life. I have had bestfriends since pre-school, I can remember the different stages by thinking about the friends I have had through out.
I love being with people and being included socially. If I go on a holiday I will make friends with other people my age or even at work, I will form alliances and friendships and of course I picked up bestfriends in hospital.
I am capable of being by myself but I prefer to have a close friend. I automatically seek them out. At the moment I conciously choose friends who are not overly complex emotionally. I like to hang out with people with similair interests, like fashion, jewellery and being on the go. I love having pretty and fashionable friends who mirror qualities I admire. Even with my guy friends the ones that I like to hang out with are always competent, fun to be with, laid back, social and reasonably attractive. I stay away from people who seem to be nasty, lack compassion or overly harsh. I seem to be very good at finding and attracting compatible friendships. Its really interesting as every time I go out I am aware of who I am choosing to talk too, who I am interested in be friending and who I pass on. Usually I pass on being friends with people who embody characterstics about myself I dislike or people who are judgemental, I am not judgemental but dislike being judged.
If your in my life, its because I conciously chose to include you. Learn from me, let me learn from you. Coz in this world baby, thats whats its all about. Love. Love yourself and everyone else.
Last edited by butterflyeffect; 06-30-2010 at 01:43 PM.