[butterflyeffect]

I am very aware of the friends I choose to hang out with. I consciously choose them. I do not tell them though, "I have deliberately chosen to be friends with you", I just notice myself choosing and hanging with certain types of people.

I always have a bestfriend, someone I spend most of my time and am very close too. That person changes over time and I find someone to go with each new stage of my life. I have had bestfriends since pre-school, I can remember the different stages by thinking about the friends I have had through out.

I love being with people and being included socially. If I go on a holiday I will make friends with other people my age or even at work, I will form alliances and friendships and of course I picked up bestfriends in hospital.

I am capable of being by myself but I prefer to have a close friend. I automatically seek them out. At the moment I conciously choose friends who are not overly complex emotionally. I like to hang out with people with similair interests, like fashion, jewellery and being on the go. I love having pretty and fashionable friends who mirror qualities I admire. Even with my guy friends the ones that I like to hang out with are always competent, fun to be with, laid back, social and reasonably attractive. I stay away from people who seem to be nasty, lack compassion or overly harsh. I seem to be very good at finding and attracting compatible friendships. Its really interesting as every time I go out I am aware of who I am choosing to talk too, who I am interested in be friending and who I pass on. Usually I pass on being friends with people who embody characterstics about myself I dislike or people who are judgemental, I am not judgemental but dislike being judged.

If your in my life, its because I conciously chose to include you. Learn from me, let me learn from you. Coz in this world baby, thats whats its all about. Love. Love yourself and everyone else.