I read a lot of the seduction/PUA material. For me it helps understand human nature. But I've noticed two types of people in this "community", the ones who are terrified of knowing themselves so they convince themselves all they want is the conquest of sex, and that emotions and feelings are for women. The other type are looking for successful relationships, but realize there is a lot of BS involved, games that must be learned in order to get from point a to b. I would say that's the type that is most similar to people learning personal development.
I guess I'm in the middle. |