There seem to be a lot of men here who are doing just fine, but nonetheless like the lifestyle of going out and meeting women they don't have any connection to (aka "sarging"). Which is fine. I'm not going to address that group.
But Velvet, what if you were a man who's never had a women look twice at him? Wouldn't you be worried that you'd never get married? And keep in mind that it's crushing for a guy when no women don't pay attention to him.
I would say that maybe 20% of all guys fall into that category, and that is the group that the PUA community appeals to most. Good or bad, PUA provides advice where mainstream society hasn't.
An additional 50%? of men get some attention from women and will probably get married, but feel like they have no control in their relationships. Another unhealthy situation.
To address the reaction that you got about men ranking women on a scale of 1-10........well, duh. Men have been doing that since the beginning of time. No one except idiots take it seriously.
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