Now THAT is an amazing story... The scientist in me always start questioning this kind of thing, but I am currently conquering my over-critical beliefs through a trail in the subjective reality belief system.
I think your question will be answered if you listen to the podcast about "The True Nature of Reality". When you improve yourself, your reality (relationships, other people) improves, and when you work on your reality, you improve. Makes perfect sense.
How it relates to polarization I am still trying to figure out. I posted about it yesterday. My problem is with understanding what happens to 'Me', the subjective universe, if you polarize to the dark and your avatar dies.
I know intuitively that that if I raise my consciousness to the level of unconditional (self) love, the question will no longer matter because the existence of an after life is not relevant to your actions if you love yourself. And if you get to Joy... Well, then all there left is NOW, so who gives a f** about the afterlife anyway...
