I'm not close to that state yet, but I remember Hawkins saying that up towards the high 500s (575ish) Ecstasy and Bliss come, and even this exquisite state must be surrendered to God in order for Peace at LOC 600 to prevail.
I also remember him saying that you don't negate or surrender Love (you get to the Void then!

), but you do surrender the attachment to love. So be non-attached to it, but not detached. I'm not 100% sure of this quote, but does it make some sense to you?
I like Dharma's explanation about connectedness, too. I remember hearing stories of even the Buddha being angry.
Happy that you're coming so far along, would love to hear more of your experiences!