Thank you so much everyone for all the comments, harsh or not, they were all very helpful, so thankyou.
The idea about alternative contraception methods seems interesting and i'll certainly consider talking about it with my girlfriend. thank you in particular 'lola', your insights were very eye opening to the issue and its great to hear from your first hand experience, there were consequences there that... are hard to have ever even considered until its far too late. Visualisation sounds like a great technique, i'll do my best to enforce just how important this issue is and at all times.
I do feel that i need to somewhat grow up to the issue, to be smart and to think/consider my priorities. In fact, that's one of the key things I'm also reevaluating, perhaps i'm not thinking about sex in the way i should be? perhaps instead of some mindless lustful act it should be more of an 'intimate love-making' session that i share with my girlfriend?
thanks again for everything |