I guess we'll have to agree to disagree there. Whilst saying ÿou sexually harassed me"is definately implying that the person is a "sexual harasser"in terms of labelling, if the person doesn't actually say the words "You are a sexual harasser", then, in my mind anyway, they haven't really called that person one specifically, just implied that the behaviour was of this nature.
To me, there is a difference, even though I can see where you are coming from. I would have been just as upset, if it had have been me, don't worry. People have to be real careful these days what they say, as it can ruin someones rep and life.
Glad to hear you haven't let it get to you Andrew, your playfulness is appreciated.