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Originally Posted by Brutha I think you mean the kind of closeness that exist in this video? That not even that close  |
No, that video isn't too close. That's kind of what I'm used to. Dominican style is my preference but I don't sit any songs out when they play Bachata. I love it more than salsa.
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Originally Posted by Brutha When dancing that kind of Bachata I think it's important to for the man to feel when the woman feels uncomfortable and increase distance.
There however are also a lot of girls who don't have a problem with that kind of closeness provided it's lead smoothly. |
I wish you could forward this advice to the guys over here.

Leading is way harder though so I'm sure it takes time to build this type of intuition.
But yeah, I'll probably phase out of my uneasiness as I only started in November. I've come a long way though, I used to feel awkward just holding a closed position.
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Originally Posted by Brutha It always better transmission of movement if at the right hand is on the upper back and the lead is stronger.
Even if the left hand happens rest on the lower back  |
Agreed.
Of course if the guy is sweet and single...I don't mind it as much.