Originally Posted by roxyruby
like he checks my phone calls/messages etc sometimes and reads what I've been saying on the forums sometimes and gets angry easily cause of his worry about me flirting with or seeing another guy so like if he saw AG speaking to me like that he might get suspicious and think there's something going on and be mad at me
Does he get seriously angry at you, or is it play angry?
If he seriously gets angry at you, I'd suggest to him (maybe he'll read this
) to work on his self esteem. It is obvious from everybody here that you absolutely adore him. Just because some guy flirts with you, doesn't mean that 1. you'll leave him or 2. you are even flirting back.
And I do think it is important for you as well to consider not doing things because your boyfriend might get angry at you. But don't them because you know he doesn't like it, and to you it doesn't matter.
Small difference maybe, but the difference between a healthy relationship and an abusive relationship non the less.
Its been a big struggle in my life to see where I put my boundaries in my relationships regarding certain things. Not flirting, but other things. So I understand how this might feel difficult or even impossible, but I know that it isn't. And I also know that a relationship will only improve if you both come from a place of love and connection and not from anger and fear of anger.