Originally Posted by Andrew Gubb
Fine Ruby but I can still have a problem with you accusing me of sexual harassment!
It makes you a victim in people's eyes and me a horrible ogre attacking you.
That's how they see it!
I see us as equals. How do you know thats how other people are seeing me and you? I am not accusing you of sexual harassment anymore AG, It was a misunderstanding on my part at the time, a distortion of your intent in my mind, but talking about it made it more clear.
Maybe I should not have labeled what I thought you meant towards me as sexual harassment so fast, I don't know, I'm just saying now I didn't have better words at the time to describe how I felt about it (even though I was wrong in my mind).