Originally Posted by Cochonette
Honestly, I think your boyfriend has a problem, not that my opinion matters much. Possessiveness is bad. I would feel far more sexually/emotionally threatened if someone actually wanted to possess me than someone playfully and insignificantly saying "my" to me. I don't understand why you think that actual possessiveness from your boyfriend is more acceptable than something unserious from someone else... after all, you said that saying "my beautiful" is unacceptable even before the fact that you have a boyfriend. Well, on second thought, I guess you could say you gave him permission to be possessive.
Possessiveness in a relationship can be very hot
I think there is a definite difference between some stranger or a vague friend saying something that can be seen as possessive or your boyfriend. Even if she mentioned her boyfriend only after the fact, doesn't mean that she didn't have a boyfriend before
She just didn't mention it until I asked for more details on the subject