Cheers,
I know that feeling very well. You have been used, and it is no excuse that the other party is young and did not do it consciously - she is guilty anyway.
What to say - many young girls use religion as a convenient way to avoid having sex with her bf (as well as they use a bf as a convenient way to avoid having sex with someone else). By convenient I mean that they apply it at will, and they cease to exist immediately if the girl decides. Either avoid them like the Plague, or teach them to play with your rules.
You have been used, and even worse, you have been insulted. She does not consider you man enough for her, and probably never did. Think about that. You lost the game. It hurts, and there is nothing you can really do about it. Now you will at least learn what not to do the next time. Some time in the future, as you have grown wiser, you look into your past and wonder why you did even care.
Have a Dark day,
-SS
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