 Can't get close with someone..
Hi everyone I am a 21 years student who has never been close to a girl. I have never even kissed a girl. I am not shy when I am with a girl, I can give great first impressions and have girls want me for my charms. But when every moment gets serious into a physical stage I just freeze and keep my distance. I really can't get close to a girls, an invisible wall is blocking me from other people to want me.
I know some of you might say that the cause is from a childhood situation/ trauma that made me like this. Who knows? My personal explanation about my weird behavior keep changing to why I can't get intimate with girls. Maybe I haven't found the right one, Maybe something is wrong with me, Maybe I am not the problem, Maybe I just need to man up. Thoughts like these ran through my head, but there seems to be a barrier which could be me.
Any advice guys? any similar...
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