Some great advice for you oldsoul. I would look further into the fact that your wife's sex drive has gone to zero. Is she suffering from depression or have major worries?
I'm saying this as a woman who has gone through periods of diminished sex drive in the past. Luckily my now husband stuck with it (he did cheat on me once but we made it through). I was suffering from extremely low self esteem and when I didn't have sex I would feel worse but I couldn't because I felt so low. It was an extremely vicious circle.
Speak to your wife but unfortunately if she doesn't feel there is anything wrong and is unwilling to deal with the situation then I fear your marriage is at the end.
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