Personal Development for Smart People Forums - View Single Post - 35 y/o and Don't know what I want to be when I grow up

Keith · 11-08-2006, 08:20 PM

I'd suggest trying a bunch of stuff. Adult short courses are great for this (eg. it turns out I like to oil paint - who knew!?).

When you're trying to figure out what you'd like to do with your life, you're only able to consider the options you're aware of. If you experience more, you'll have more options (and a better idea of which ones you like).

Also, have a listen to Steve's Podcast on solving frustrating problems. It's not 100% targetted to your issue, but its message of keeping your mind open for 3rd options is pertinent.

P.S. No advice re: a career coach, sorry.

11-08-2006, 08:20 PM	#2 (permalink)
Keith Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 1,130	I'd suggest trying a bunch of stuff. Adult short courses are great for this (eg. it turns out I like to oil paint - who knew!?). When you're trying to figure out what you'd like to do with your life, you're only able to consider the options you're aware of. If you experience more, you'll have more options (and a better idea of which ones you like). Also, have a listen to Steve's Podcast on solving frustrating problems. It's not 100% targetted to your issue, but its message of keeping your mind open for 3rd options is pertinent. P.S. No advice re: a career coach, sorry.