I am concerned about your wife. I know you are in a sticky situation but I really don't think this is at all fair on her. If you were to move on it may break her heart but she could also find another love and be happy.
You have not mentioned this other woman's husband. Is she willing to leave for you or are you assuming that she is? She may njot be happy in her marriage but that does not mean she's willing to leave for you.
Please think long and hard before any decision is made. I can say that leaving for a short time to 'try it out' should not be an option. This is in no way fair to your wife and it would be playing with her feelings.
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