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Jenny · 04-10-2007, 02:42 AM

I'd argue that the reason "nice" guys don't get the girls is that most of the self-described nice guys really aren't all that nice. It's just a social mask to hide, well, who knows what. A lot of the guys I've know through the years who have trouble getting women who want to be more than friends, or seem to get the "nice guy" speech a lot and/or get cheated on regularly disguise a really crappy passive-aggressive personality as nice. Well, it's not. It is also NOT the description of a so called lightworker.

In defense of bad guys (again, not sure most bad guys qualify as darkworkers) at least you know what you're getting and they are one hell of a good time.

Those said, ultimately good character traits are attractive. The shy, quirky guy wins every time!

04-10-2007, 02:42 AM	#30 (permalink)
Jenny Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Minnesota, USA Posts: 225	Why Nice Guys Don't Get The Girls I'd argue that the reason "nice" guys don't get the girls is that most of the self-described nice guys really aren't all that nice. It's just a social mask to hide, well, who knows what. A lot of the guys I've know through the years who have trouble getting women who want to be more than friends, or seem to get the "nice guy" speech a lot and/or get cheated on regularly disguise a really crappy passive-aggressive personality as nice. Well, it's not. It is also NOT the description of a so called lightworker. In defense of bad guys (again, not sure most bad guys qualify as darkworkers) at least you know what you're getting and they are one hell of a good time. Those said, ultimately good character traits are attractive. The shy, quirky guy wins every time!