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Originally Posted by mysterygal  "Everything is created within your own consciousness. There is nothing that would appear in your physical reality unless it had already existed in your thoughts or feelings. "
You say that I created everything within my own consciousness. But wouldn't it be more accurate to say that me AND everyone else created this reality since we are all conscious? For example, according to subjective reality, if a fight occured in my family it would mean that I created that fight. But if my entire family is conscious then wouldn't they all have been equal contributers? |
Yes, we are all creators. BUT we do not create in other people's experience. Like I cannot create something in your reality unless you want me to, wither conscious or unconsciously attract me to do so. People fighting have co-created that, because they have the same intention - proving the other wrong by belittling, yelling at and insulting them.
Take my boss. Everyone thinks he's the biggest ****** in the Universe, and I do see their point. Everyone of my co-workers loathes his presense. I choose to see him as a benevolent boss, a nice guy, someone I get along with. So guess what? That's the side of him I see, he talks to me by name, and is really cool to work for. My co-workers choose to concentrate on the jerky aspects of him and that's what they get.
My family and I never got along. My mothe and I were always screaming at each other because she was trying to fix all the mistakes she made using me, making me go down her path. More I concentrated on it, the more animosity there was. Now I choose to see the loving parts of my mother, that she really wants a good life for me, although her intentions for me are not quite what I want. But she wants me to be happy. Suddenly being around her is wonderful. We still have small tiffs now and then, but they blow over within minutes, because I choose to see this side of my mother.