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Originally Posted by leroy7  i dont understand how to help her. she will miss him one minute and hate him the next. and its something thats very hard for us to handle is hearing our mom cuss about dad when something like this has happened. it goes the same for me and my brother she wants us there for her then she pushes us away. |
Her anger is normal. It is Stage 2 of Elizabeth Kubler-Ross's grief cycle. Your job is to help her transit to Stage 3, then Stages 4 and 5. Google, to find out more.
Don't forget to take care of yourself too.