Pretty much they key to feeling good can only come from looking within yourself, not outside of yourself.
You are focusing on all of the negative feelings that you are having because all of these other people look like models, and noticing that it gives you a negative emotion, and dwelling on how you "shouldn't have that negative emotion". Which, in the end, creates a terrible feedback loop in which it'll take some time to get out of (Without good assistance). Acknowledge your feelings, but never ever tell yourself how you should or shouldn't be feeling, it's counter productive.
Instead, create for yourself a goal based upon what you think would make YOU feel good (Without the help of magazines, or basing it on other people), if you think nicer clothes would help, or you think that putting on some make-up or whatever will help... Hell, put a little on and see if it does.
P.S. I'd check to see if your boyfriend is secretly gay.
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