Thread: Recovering from abusive relationship
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Old 04-08-2007, 10:11 AM   #10 (permalink)
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In my opinion, you should remain single for maybe two or three years. At least.

When you are unhealthy, you attract unhealthy relationships. I know unhealthy people who, even as they move from one relationship to another, keep attracting unhealthy partners (the kind that beat them up; cheat on them; play emotional games; or cling neurotically). It's the Law of Attraction at work, you see.

You should take time out to heal yourself, know yourself better and feel good about yourself again. Repair yourself in the head. Wait till you feel positive and happy about life again. And about yourself.

Then, and only then, start looking for a serious relationship again (if that is what you want then).

You're only 23, you know. Your whole life lies ahead.
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