[Oldsoul]

Thank you all for you support and kinds words.

I'm not sure I'm ready to throw in the towel quiet yet, but trying romantic things may be a little late, as well. My fear would be that I go ahead and check myself out of the marriage, when things could be better down the road. I don't know, I guess my wife is right when she says that it's my problem, because it looks like I'm going to have to make the decision one way or the other.

I know I have some difficult decisions to make. I will look into those books that Steve recommended. Again, you all had some really kinds words for me in this rough time, and I thank you for that. It's great to know that I'm not the only one at fault here, because that's usually the way I feel after my wife and I talk about things. She usually throws it in my face that I'm just being selfish or being a baby about it. So, to hear some of your views on things, its nice to know that I have a right to be happy.

Thanks again!

OldSoul