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Originally Posted by Basu  So as matters stand, I'm a bit stuck. I don't want to just call her up and say, "Hey you're my mate, we're gonna be together and risk freaking her out", but I don't want to go off to college without progressing beyond hour-long phone calls. I know matters will work out, because the Force is with me, but at the same time, I've lost a number of opportunities in the past due to simple inaction, and I don't want that to happen this time. Some help please? |
Don't know if I can help but here goes. I met my life mate at 21. A year-long "break" & several strange years later now we're married. He had made a decision to move up to northern Ca while I was in S. Ca finishing my college. I can say, just because you've met a "life mate" or a "close soul" doesn't mean it'll always be easy!
Haha.
Anyways I think I am reading some fear in that paragraph I quoted. I can understand if you've had a bad habit of inaction in the past. You don't have to say "life mate" but definitely just let her know you'd like something more. & if it doesn't happen now it's okay to let it go. If it's meant to happen it'll happen. I think there is a saying for this. If you love & let it go & it comes back then it is true love..or something like that.
& btw, both of you will know deep down if you are life mates..I don't think you have to say it out loud because there is so much weight associated with declaring a soul mate or likewise... It was obvious to me & to my husband from the get go. For me I had a familiarity & sense of safety unlike anything I'd ever experienced prior. For him he had dreams of me prior to meeting me. Hmm. Anyways! Good luck with college!