Basu,
Sounds like you have an exciting future ahead of you. If you do intend to have this woman be your life mate, I imagine (but won't assume) that you'll want to talk with her about all the important topics and decisions that you make. You could start now by simply telling her that you very much desire the opportunity to keep growing your friendship, even once you've arrived in the US. Ask if she's willing to spend more time with you between now and your departure date. See what she says to that. If she does agree to see you more often, be present in those moments and enjoy them for all they are worth.
If she's as into you as you are into her, she might be willing to do what's necessary to access email more often. Who knows? Maybe she's been thinking about purchasing a computer and hasn't gotten around to it.
Keep in mind that there are other means of communicating such as good, old-fashioned letter writing. I actually think it's quite romantic. You could send hand-written, or typed letters to each other.
My husband and I had a long-distance courtship and engagment. And then after we were married we did not live in the same place for another 4 months. During that time, we ran up a very high long distance telephone bill, and we sent lots of letters and greeting cards. Yes, sometimes it was hard to be so far apart--I was in Maryland and he was in Idaho. However, we made it and I love reading those old love letters that each of us saved. We'll celebrate our 12th wedding anniversary next month!
I encourage you to look to the future with optimism and enthusiasm. Enjoy your overseas college experience and trust yourself to know when and how to act. Above all I encourage you to trust and believe in the Force you alluded to in your original post and allow your intentions to manifest. If at any time it becomes a struggle, consider that you might be complicating matters or working against your purpose and true desires.
All the best to you! Enjoy life at
Williams College.
