[Basu]

I simply can't see how to proceed. Let me start the story from the beginning.

I know she's my life mate because we met, got acquainted and I got her number via a number of coincidences that simply could not have been anything except Winks from the Universe (plus a fair bit of manifestation, though I didn't know that then). But the thing is, I don't know how to get our relationship off the ground. Here's the problem: we were in different schools and we live at opposite ends of the city. She's going to be staying in the city for college and to pursue her musical interests, while I'm going to the USA. She doesn't have a computer at home and irregularly checks her email. Finally, I don't think she's looking for a relationship at this moment. (Frankly neither am I, but as I said, she's my Lifemate)

On the flip side, I know we can make it together. We have all sorts of things in common, and yet complement each other as well. I've only met her 4 times, and we weren't even friends then, but since we started calling we've learnt a lot about each other. Nowadays we never talk for less than an hour. Believe me, it's not just a boy after girl thing. She often takes the lead in the conversation and I think she was a tad disappointed when I told her I'd be leaving for the US. And she tells me things that I know I wouldn't tell someone I'd met only 4 times.

So as matters stand, I'm a bit stuck. I don't want to just call her up and say, "Hey you're my mate, we're gonna be together and risk freaking her out", but I don't want to go off to college without progressing beyond hour-long phone calls. I know matters will work out, because the Force is with me, but at the same time, I've lost a number of opportunities in the past due to simple inaction, and I don't want that to happen this time. Some help please?

PS: I've been accepted into Lafayette College, but I'd love to get through the waitlist at Williams College. Any intention/prayers on your part would also be appreciated.