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Originally Posted by Bitsy  With both of the attitudes coming up in me, it feels like a "push-me-pull-you" (some kind of animal I vaguely remember from my childhood that looked like a llama I think, but it had two heads/two fronts and they can't go anywhere because each head is trying to go in the opposite direction.) It is something I feel, I don't have proof or an explanation. I just feel/observe it happening in me. |
So you can feel the effect of "mixing polarities", it sounds like. I wondered if you could elaborate on the two feeling sets that are involved.
I sometimes wonder about how polarity would apply in a relationship. It occurs to me that there are concepts of givers and takers in relationships. But, also I can see that always putting the other person first is really what loving someone is. I can't imagine puttin myself first and loving someone very well, in other words.