Originally Posted by rei
Jamie, I just wanted to say I really enjoy your writing style, I can tell you are a fascinating person who is fully deserving of what you want in a relationship!
The vibrational match piece, very astute of you. If you want a match that creates joy and passion, it is helpful to be feeling that as you focus on a relationship. And, I for one think it works better if we're truly feeling that way the moment we set the intention (or declare willingness for a relationship), and as part of our baseline mood. In my experience this works better than, say, trying to create "happy" on top of "sad" without processing "sad."
Basically if we feel heavy when we open up to a relationship, it's likely to feel like a heavy relationship. If we feel vibrant, fluid, passionate, playful when we open up, we're more likely to match a relationship like that.
Oh my gosh! I just realized that with my high school/early college boyfriend, I did exactly that. I looked in the mirror one day, said very seriously: "Universe, if you'll send me the right guy, I will give him my all." And the relationship was wonderful, definitely "right" for me - loving and helped me move forward. But it also required my all
, and big time. I keep thinking of ways to start a new relationship and going back to that, but I hadn't realized how the way I set the intention for that one came out exactly how I'd visualized it. I did tons of work and didn't leave until I'd exhausted all other options multiple times over. This time maybe I want a similarly clear but less heavy intention, yes? Wow, thanks for that aha moment!
And re: writing style and deserving love.
Thanks for that! So nice to hear. I'm definitely blushing.