Originally Posted by Angela
If you want to be a vibrational match for a good-feeling relationship, I'd suggest you let go of all the blah-blah-blah about it: the reasons, the shoulds, the I-don't-knows -- and focus on thoughts that feel good when you feel them. Good-feeling people are magnets for other good-feeling people, and you don't have to worry about where or when or how or why you'll meet your match -- you can just relax and BE the partner you want to be NOW, before you even meet him. You can think of yourself as preparing yourself, as he is preparing himself for you. You are warming up your arms for him, and he is warming his arms for you to walk into easily and effortlessly, at exactly the right time.
(P.s. have you ever heard that country-western song, "Did I Shave My Legs for THIS?"
Oh man, thanks for that breath of fresh air. Sometimes I get all: "but you're not doing anything," and forget that while action is important, so are the feelings behind it. Definitely going to follow this invitation to relax; always need those.
(I haven't heard that song, but I am *so* going to look for it now!)