I agree that if you "have a problem" against porn, that you probably need to fix your own insecurity issues.
Of course, then the question becomes "How?" I am not an expert, but maybe take bellydance, burlesque, or stripping classes. Choose which suits you: Bellydancing, being sensual, but not sexual; burlesque being playfully and theatrically sexual; and stripping being overtly sexual.
I personally enjoy both bellydance, and burlesque, although I probably prefer burlesque, because there are not as many rules, and it allows for more self-expression. And let me say that I am happily married in an extremely healthy relationship: My husband is fine with me performing in public, or blues dancing with other guys. He hates to dance. I am fine with him watching internet porn. I don't want to have sex every night. We both are respectful towards the opposite sex, and all.
Why does this work? Because we trust OURSELVES and EACH OTHER. |