Understanding the Law of Attraction, the path for me with any issue is clear.
First I take the time to attune to myself and my emotions, which provide the only direct feedback as to how my environment is affecting me. I feel my emotions, and I name them, processing them verbally as memory. I continue to give myself permission to feel them as fully as necessary, releasing them to my highest good. I allow myself to get comfortable with them. Eventually, they pass, sometimes in seconds, other times, it's longer. I will know one of two things. Did the emotion feel good or bad?
If I feel good, great! I'm on the right track. If I feel bad, I recognize an opportunity to create what I DO want. Am I in a relationship involving porn, and am very unhappy about it? I want to then focus on what I want to create. Maybe I want to resolve this problem with my boyfriend and I focus on that. Or maybe I recognize my boyfriend is not right for me. I focus on creating the relationship and situations I DO want to create.
At no point in this theoretical process do I deny who I am, what I feel, or what I want. In order to use the law of attraction to my best interests, I focus on what I want to expand, whether it's my own self-love, inner security, mutual relationship, or the seeking of a new relationship that meets my needs.
Once I clearly define what I choose to create more of, my intuition, my emotions and my logic operate as the tools in bringing my dreams into my experiential reality.  |