When you say you need help 'mapping out your life' what exactly do you mean? Do you mean you want to plan every little stage of your life in the next year at least?
You've just said the basic plan you have...why do you need a map? If you like group sex, then that sort of rules out marriage for now...so don't worry about getting married, until such time as YOU FEEL like you're over group sex and want to settle down, if ever.
You certainly don't HAVE to get married. You seem to be complicating things when it's clear to me you already have a plan...so stick with that and start moving towards getting to Brazil if that's where you see yourself.
Stop clinging to externals as a security blanket, just go with what you think is what you want now, and if it changes somewhere down the track, then change with it.
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Originally Posted by CroMagna  I want to do all of these things, live in brazil for a year, get a stable job in the states, strip. I don't know if I want to get married or be polyamorous because I like group sex. Help me map out my life please at least what I'm doing this year. |