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Old 04-04-2007, 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted by sallyfrieldam View Post
Are you saying that everyone with an opinion on porn is insecure? Are you saying that everyone with an opinion on porn is worried?
I think there could be a chance that people with an opinion against porn is because they are insecure in themselves, especially towards their looks and how well they perform under the covers.

Also, it could be due to a social conditioning and family brought up, that porn is "uncivilised" or "crude", and people with a good upbringing shouldn't watch things like that.

Also, there are people who view making love as something beautiful among lovers, where love is really present and not just purely having sex where no feelings are involved. Therefore, porn turns such people off, and naturally so!

Maybe what we should look at is the underlying reasons why men are watching porn (if it's to satisfy certain bodily needs) when they are already in a relationship and having regular sex with their partners?

Could this be in the same arena as men having affairs when they have a good relationship with their wives? Hmm...
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