Hi colfax, I think what you're feeling at the moment is perfectly normal and justified for what you have been through.
After a break-up - everyone feels pain and sadness for an amount of time that can vary widely. So there's certainly nothing wrong with you for feeling the way that are right now.
I think you've coped extremely well with your last break-up and I think you're handling your ex's attempts to antagonise you, like a star!
Reading between the lines of your post a bit, the one thing that does occur to me is that it sounds like you feel the need to be with someone else already. It sounds like you're not that comfortable being by yourself and prefer the comfort it brings you to be with someone else.
Obviously I'm just speculating based on how I've interpreted your post, does it sound accurate at all?
If so, it would mean that it would be helpful for you to work on being ok to be by yourself for a while. I think you just need some time to absorb the fact that you are an amazing person who doesnt need anyone else's validation to feel ok.
Well done for breaking up with your ex, that must have taken an enormous amount of courage. I think you are capable of great things!
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