[alpha372]

I just read the link for "the reality method", and I must say, that as a girl, it is pretty good advice for arousal. Yes, it is true that you have to somehow implant the idea of intimacy into our minds before you actually make any moves, or get us thinking about it which can be done in numerous ways.

I like that he mentions to tickle before kissing. Because a guy play wrestling with you and getting you to laugh is a good way of going about it.Don't ask the girl what is a turn on to her. A girl wants to know that you pay enough attention to her that you can figure it out yourself. Try different methods, see which one works. If one doesn't work out, don't give up and say, "it's useless, she doesn't like me." You're just probably approaching it the wrong way.

I'm insulted by his method of "I have to see if you are any good at sex first." But when it comes down to it, if all you care about is sex, then you should definately let potential mates know your intentions.

I still say,just stay away from girls period, until one just comes along that naturally fits into your life style.

Relationships that aren't formed between two people with a lot of common ground ,are just a big pain in the ass.

If you want intimacy, be intiment with the right person.