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So, you want a girlfriend.
Well, you could get one from the same site I did:
Hotornot.com

Opportunity cost:
You have to spend time writting back and forth

Solution:
Find a girlfriend with the same interest and goals as yourself. This way, you can write back and forth about the things that matter to the both of you.

So you want to attract women:
Warning:
It's a big opportunity cost to attract the wrong kind of women. You will spend lots of time with someone who will try to change you and it won't work out anyway, so what's the piont?

Solution
Make sure you know who you are.
1) what do you spend most of your time doing?
Don't do anything that will attract women who don't spend time doing the same thing.

ex: Don't dress like you have money if you don't. You will attract women who like to spend time shopping. Don't wear business attire.

If you just want to have sex and no girlfriend:
1) Dress like you have money
2)stand up straight when you walk-- a girl likes a man with confidence
3) smile -- it makes you seem confident and fun
4) learn how to flirt -- a girl likes to be told that she is beautiful
5) learn how to make the first move with confidence, without being gross about it.
a) must share a laugh together before you make a move
a1) this requires a date that will evoke happiness
a2) I've heard that movie then dinner is best way to get convo going.

My advice
Go for getting a girlfriend instead of just sex. Then you won't have to prentend to be someone your not.

When trying to get a girlfriend, never prented to be something you aren't:
ex: don't pretend to be neat and clean if you aren't. You will attract someone who is neat and clean, which will lead to fights further down the road.
Ask yourself:
what kind of girl you want to attract, and become that yourself. If you want to have a well dressed girlfriend, dress well yourself. If you want to have a girl with a good vocab, make sure you have one yourself. If you want a "hot babe" make sure you're a "hot babe" too.

Don't tell a girl that you're an inventor when you come home from work and watch tv all night.


bottom line:
Don't do anything that will attract someone who is not good for you. It will be stressful and a big big waste of time!