P.S. When I speak about lessons, I do not mean in the sense of passing or failing something. It's more like experiences and moments the soul has invited.
For example, the other night I was asking about something in the records and I got a wonky response (inconsistent). It hit me that my essence specifically set it up that way, as a signal, because I understood immediately that it would serve me more to focus on living the experience instead of trying to secure things about it. (Granted, I could still get the info if I wanted to, but I totally understood the purpose of the situation unfolding that way, for me... allowing for the enjoyment of the mystery...)
Seems to me this might have been one of the moments my essence was prepared to create for me to learn.
So, in your experience then, Chris, big events that seem to have a lot of meaning for the individual (death of a loved one, abuse, even something that may appear "smaller" on the surface but FEELS significant) - from your perspective these things don't connect with the records, the major moments a soul has invited for the incarnation? Or is it your experience that they do connect, you just don't conceive of it in terms of lessons?