Does anyone acutally use this stuff? I get the impression from my time reading these boards, that many people don't use Steve's articles or PD stuff to it's full benefit.
"I lost my track"
"My little progress"
"Help, I've lost focus"
Like it's one big crying session.
All the information is out there.
I was thinking about how fortunate we are. How many opportunities that we have, and take for granted. Take a look around the world to see what I mean. We've got people dying of war, starvation, mass genocide, kids being used in suicide bomb plots. etc etc.
And people are complaining that they can't stop drinking Colas, smoking, or working out, or finding a job.
Self Help all boils down to just showing up.
Want to know why I succeed in every goal I set?
I just show up.
That's all there is to it.
When I wanted to drop pounds I wrote a list of the stuff it would take to lose 20 pounds and did it. It became a part of my life. Coming from a place of being proactive is the key to all this stuff.
Once you realize that..it becomes so easy. So much so that you'll complete all your goals so fast that it will be hard to set new ones because you've already accomplished so much.
when I wanted a hot ass girlfriend I went out every night and got one. I didn't worry what the situation was, how I felt, I just showed up.
when I wanted to make extra money I had to battle with so many road blocks and bumps in the road it would make anyone want to turn around. I forged on and am just now starting to reap the benefits of my hard work.
So that's all there is to it. Just show up. Get out of your own head and cease the mental masturbation and pity parties. |