Originally Posted by ssandra
You mentioned hormones in another thread....
I would not do anything with this until that problem is sorted out. Hormones have a very nasty way of sneaking up on persons and changing our own perception of events are they are happening. They are not reality.
I know, since I've been battling hormones almost my entire life... On and off the pill or other hormone based birth control.
So, although I've just had my own bound of miss communication happening (mainly my fault, some interpretations that were focused negatively) both online and off line, I would say for now, let it go.
Try to be as honest as possible in your communication, leave the judgments and hurt feelings when miss communication happens to the side, and try to explain your point of view as good as possible.
Other then that, either become very good in distinguishing between feelings and hormones (like I have done) or wait until your hormones sort themselves out.
Letting it go is probably a useful idea right now... Especially since I expressed the emotions related to this. I feel embarrassed that I would care so much. And maybe I am being hard on myself... I mean, don't most of us get our wires crossed sometimes? (still bad timing for that to happen, though... very bad timing...)
Oh, and I am not sure this is actually hormonal. Not quite time for that this month, and the other thread was more something I wanted to post while I was thinking about it. But I do feel like I have processed as much as I can for now.