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Old 04-01-2007, 10:24 AM   #3 (permalink)
smallstar
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Default Mixing polarities

Cheers,

Yet another remark... why, exactly, do you think it is bad to fill someone's inbox with "I love you" messages? Let's think about your motivations. You are not motivated by Love, but by Fear. Those are two different things. By telling "I love you" you are lying, and even worse, getting caught of it! If you truly Loved her, you would have the confidence to let her expand her limits and not to worry about it too much.

Do not mix your polarities. A Fear emotion calls for a Fear response. At least you will see how much you mean to her.

Have a Dark day,

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