Originally Posted by ssandra
HA! to support anyway...
No support what so ever.
When moving to Belgium, the friends and family here was all like "NOOOOOO you cannot go!! We will miss you!! We need you! What are you going to do there? You don't have a house, you don't have an income, you don't have friends....
His dad even went as far as to say in an extremely passive aggressive way "if you go... we miss you. But I need you to come back when I have a heart attack to take care of your mother and brother"....
My parents.. well.. lets just say that support isn't in their main vocabulary. They think and truly feel that they are supporting me by pointing out all the things that can and will go wrong, no matter what I do.
Besides that they kind of hate (or strongly dislike) my husband so the fact that we would get married didn't go over well... actually, on my wedding day, my dad made a big drama in the morning because we didn't eat breakfast and then didn't speak to me for the rest of the day.... :S Nice day..
So support? HA!
Wow, that's interesting. But you did have support from your husband to move, right? I mean you weren't doing it alone. My dad hated my ex boyfriend too and when I got an apartment with him he freaked out, but I had no problem getting the apartment because I was doing it with someone. So I think I could move to another state if anyone else was doing it with me.