In Mexico, when we left, we didn't have a job. But going to Belgium we didn't have a job either and my husband didn't speak Dutch and didn't have a visa.
Plus we had to get married to be there... We did have family, lots of friends and great opportunities here in Mexico... My husband is very close to his family, not just parents and brother but also cousins and stuff.
Going back to Mexico; I had a part time job and my own company and my husband had a good job. We also had a cat (that came with us
) and my family is in the Netherlands (neighbor of Belgium).
What I do, is: I make a decision. I think, how does it feel having made this decision? Does it make me smile? Yes, then it was the right decision.
No? Does it make me feel nervous, anxious etc? Ok, I'll try on the other decision... and go back to the other one, until I hit the one that makes me smile. That is my decision. It is not rational. I don't know all the answers yet probably, but I'll figure them out. For the moment, my decision is made
Usually doesn't take longer then a few minutes. Except when it comes to food... I'm weird about food
I would do the same if I had a child btw. It is good for a child to know decisions can be made, and different options present themselves all the time.
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Originally Posted by Rockchick26  Are you serious?!  Just like that? Do you have any kids or anyone you are living with or a job you have to quit? |