Originally Posted by Rockchick26
Would you choose to quit your job and move to another country in the same time it takes you to decide if you want pepperoni or sausage on your pizza?
What you're not seeing is that even though you have not yet made a choice, you are already making a choice.
If you take 5 years to decide whether you want to move from Italy to Brazil, what's happening is that you are deciding to stay for at least 5 years in Italy.
Same thing with the rest of your life. For example, currently, you have decided:
(a) to stay unemployed
(b) to not write for eHow
(c) to not have a career
(d) to not see the doctor
(e) to not change your diet
(f) to not live on that organic farm
(g) to stagnate on your various interests
(h) to deal with your father in the way that you are dealing with your father
As long as you stay passive on those things and allow the status quo to remain, you are effectively deciding to stay committed to those decisions.