Originally Posted by Rockchick26
I understand your analogy, but choosing between chocolate or vanilla isn't even in the same league as choosing what career to do for the rest of your life. I don't even have problems choosing between what flavor ice cream I want!
It's exactly the same league. The league of life. You choose, and if you don't like the results of your choice, you choose again, this time with the learnings you (hopefully) got out of your prior choice.
Unsuccessful people just choose not to choose -- to flail around reacting to what happens. And they tend to get stuck with the yucky flavors.